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It takes more courage than most people have to put yourself out there as a performer in sex vids. I certainly couldn't do it. Frankly, the women I know who work in that business are nearly always the most intelligent, courageous and sincere I know. Look at Stormy Daniels if you want a shining example. I always wish for these women that they can amass sufficient wealth to insulate them from harm for a lifetime. Derogatory comments always bring to mind one of my favorite aphorisms: No matter the facade a man fronts the world, there is always a woman, somewhere, who knows he’s just a little boy who wants his cookies and his mommy.
The blowjob is perhaps the most subjective subject in sex vids. Rarely do we agree on what makes for a visually pleasing blowjob. For me, the blowjob is the pinnacle of acting in sex vids. If the woman can convince me she loves sucking dick as much as I love eating pussy, she's a winner, what I call a true crotch mama. This is the woman who goes right to the dick and gets it in her mouth. And the longer she works it, the more turned on (dick xxxxx) she gets. Secondarily, I love to see a dick pulsing in her mouth as it squirts the semen, and finally, I want to see her throat moving as she gulps it down. Any woman who can do that is a woman I'll watch do anything! There is much to dislike about sex video blowjobs --- most especially the perfunctory blowjob --- the one done simply to get the dick hard and get some lube on it. My paramour, Betsy, always did that to me so I know it when I see it. (She did, however, have the best pussy in the whole world!) The most egregious for me is the guy's hand on her head shoving it down her throat. I see that as crude, perhaps even hateful. It certainly doesn't make my dick hard! I acknowledge there are some women who really want to be used that way so it's not all bad. But what I prefer to see is the woman controlling the dick as the man simply allows her to use it to satisfy her desires. Best when she only uses her mouth. Oh, and what's this bit about cheek fucking? Seems so silly to me. As I've said before, one of the best vids I know is called "Taking Her Mouth," although it doesn't match most of my criteria for a good blowjob. It does win on sensuality. My very favorite is the SENZ label of SOD entry, "The Penis Cafe." I watch it at least once a week. An airy and cozy cafe serves women who like dick with their drinks and sweets. Hard dicks come through holes in the walls and tables, and the women can play casually with them, suck them, even fuck them while visiting with their friends. I wish they'd make another on the same theme.
For me, this is waste of a lot of good bandwidth. "Outside" is simply watching a man jerking off with a woman present, no matter where the cum ends up. JAV does a good job showing internal ejaculations --- a partially inserted dick throbbing as it shoots cum into the woman. And the it's great to see a real creampie as the cum dribbles out.
A deeply complicated issue and rarely as clear cut as we like to think. One's agency does extend to this, but there can be awful consequences. I wrote about it several years ago... Apparently, this will not accept a link. Search forbidden screen door at deadreckoning1
