Why Dominant Women in JAV Are Really Hot

Introduction
Women are so often labeled as delicate, submissive, and proper, and naturally, this often comes out in their many roles in media, from TV shows and movies to even porn such as JAV. Even women themselves often prefer their men to be dominant and to take the lead, at least when it comes to sex. Of course, not every woman is like this, though it is fairly common, but, what if we were to reverse the roles? What if a woman took the lead during a sex scene, and is actively the one guiding the intercourse? A lot of JAV have naturally given this direction a shot, and I'm sure many would agree that it's not only captivating but refreshing as well. I'm going to explain why I think such a thing is really erotic in JAV.
It's A Thrilling Deviation From the Norm
Actresses: Moka Haruhi:
It is common in most parts of the world that women are seen as submissive and thus don't usually take the lead in sex scenes. Such traits are naturally depicted in porn, not just to depict this reality, but also because it plays into male fantasies of wanting to be dominant over a woman, which makes sense as porn and JAV are populated mostly by male watchers. To have a woman instead be dominant in a JAV, whether it be by approaching the man first, leading the sex acts in a scene, or overall being more proactive when interacting with the man, deviates from the norm, and many see this as highly erotic.
While women being dominant seems to be more of a modern thing in JAV, it could be said that such an idea has already been deemed sexually superb by many in the past. A woman being dominant doesn't necessarily mean she needs to be dominant for the WHOLE JAV - simply performing a blowjob on her own with a high level of eagerness, or taking part in a position where she's on top could still technically be described as her being "dominant", as she is in control (at least, in my opinion). Any man who enjoys a woman doing such things can technically be labeled as enjoying when women are dominant, so you could say a lot of men find the concept more attractive than some may think.
To an extent, it could also be argued that this "delicateness" of women not being dominant in a sexual situation is also a part of culture. When a woman instead becomes dominant, she pushes a different image of female sexuality, one that is confident and assertive, and her personality will likely also match. This means a JAV with a dominant woman might also have a dominant personality (opening up further opportunities for new dynamics in relationships), and more variety is always a good thing. On top of that, there's an allure to witnessing a woman not only express her desires but actively pursue and fulfill them.
Confidence Can Exude Sexiness
Actresses: Yui Hatano:
Confidence is a trait that is desired by both men and women in a partner, and dominant women can heavily boast confidence like any other. Such women could be attempting to seduce a man or trying to command attention from one with great assertiveness, and they'll emit a sort of glow that men will just find irresistible. Add onto that with the fact that this is a very rare thing amongst women, and that men today are more lonely and mistreated than ever, so a dominant woman seeking to "capture" a man can be even more attractive than usual.
A dominant woman's reservoir of confidence can extend to her pursuit for pleasure as well, not just her assertiveness to interact with a man and gain his interest. JAV scenes with a dominant woman might focus more on the woman accruing pleasure as opposed to the male's pleasure, and on top of that being a nice change of pace, it also pushes the message that the woman's pleasure matters in ADDITION to the man's - which doesn't always come across well in some JAV.
Power Dynamics
Actresses: Yui Hatano:
Dominance and submissiveness often play off each other or coincide with one another, and their interactions can lead to some surprisingly sensual results. JAV containing a dominant woman often explore power dynamics in a rather creative way, which permits the viewer to observe a world with reversed roles. Interestingly enough, these JAV also often have a more consensual energy to them, which makes sense - what man would deny a sexual interaction with a woman who's decently attractive?
Such power dynamics can be explored safely in the realm of fantasy without any potential negative outcomes, much like any fetish that some might criticize or look down upon with disgust. The tension between a dominant individual with a submissive one can also allow for emotional highs, and keep watchers paying attention with great anticipation.
Dominance Allows For More Personalities
Actresses: Yui Hatano, Misuzu Kawana, Hikaru Konno, Yuu Shinoda:
There are tons of different archetypes for dominant women, which is yet another reason why having dominant women in JAV is amazing as it helps cater to multiple different types of individuals. Femme fatales are classic figures - they are mysterious, seductive, and sexy, and interacting with one feels like a game of cat and mouse. You never know what will happen when one is present, or whether or not they might commit to a sex scene.
There's also "teasers" (for those who watch anime, think Nagatoro, but a bit more sexually mischievous), a type of woman that asserts dominance over a man by constantly teasing or making fun of him in a usually light-hearted way, often adding a little bit of humor and positivity to a JAV. Their dominance ends up feeling a bit more "approachable", unlike the more intimidating nature of the femme fatale, for instance.
Teachers, managers, instructors; women in positions of authority, essentially, can also exude a dominant aura. Their no-nonsense attitude and strict adherence to discipline and peak performance is incredibly stimulating. What's even more sensuous is when such women are determined to get what they want from a man sexually.
There are others as well, but dominant women allow for different types of personalities and thus allows for greater variety, hopefully satisfying those with differing fetishes.
Dominance Can Also Be Playful
Actresses: Yui Nanase:
I've talked about this subject previously with "teaser" type personalities, but dominant women are usually very serious and determined when it comes to getting what they want. However, there are scenarios where such women aren't as serious, and are instead more light-hearted, allowing for a more comical direction. Be it with a light-hearted conversation, teasing, or playfulness, this approach to dominant women allows for more charming scenes, rather than ones that are perhaps more intense. This could allow for a scene to be light while still boasting a bit of erotic charm.
Such playfulness also helps add a bit more character to an actor and/or the role they are playing, as it makes them more relatable and approachable. Viewers are drawn not only to their commanding presence but also to their ability to navigate the line between intensity and levity.
It Can Be Relieving For Men
Actresses: Arisa Seina, Yuria Yoshine:
Some men obviously find it very engaging to fantasize about a woman who takes charge over him sexually, and some might even label it liberating. In a lot of JAV, men often take the lead, and thus have to experience significant pressure and performance anxiety. A dominant woman gives men relief in that they are the ones controlling the scene, and it allows said men to focus on their own pleasure. This setup can also provide a sense of validation, as the woman often affirms her partner's desires and reactions.
Empowering For Women
Actresses: Minami Ayase, Riko Honda, Kokoha Komine, Anri Mochizuki, Akane Yoshinaga:
Women who get to be dominant also get to feel empowered by their actions, as it portrays them as confident and in control as they seek to satisfy their desires, as well as their partners'. It allows women the opportunity to embrace their own desires and prioritize their pleasure, and also serves as a message to inspire women to take more control over their intimacy.
Conclusion
Dominant women in JAV are not just a reversal of traditional roles, it celebrates a woman's confidence, empowers her to satisfy her own desires, and can at the same time, satisfy a man's own personal fetishes, specifically, ones where the woman is more assertive. By exploring power dynamics and introducing various types of personalities associated with dominant women, even more variety can be inserted into JAV (a medium already well-known for being diverse to an overly wacky extent).
The concept can be appealing to female watchers as well, not just from a fetish standpoint, but also inspiring them to seek out dominance in their own relationships. The JAV themselves also help to give women a space where they can satisfy themselves sexually from the perspective of being the one who takes the lead.
What do you guys think? Do you find it stimulating when the woman is the dominant individual in a scene? Or, do you simply prefer when women perform oral or are on top?
Comments
True dominance has two fundamental characteristics. First is a willful submission. Both the sub and the dominant must accept the relationship’s structure — all power resides in the dominant party, and the sub is fully enjoined in this. Second, there must be an element of pain/suffering. This may be physical or it may be purely psychological, sometimes both. And both parties must embrace and find joy in their roles. Without those two elements, there is no dominance.
JAV has never shown me a single example of a truly dominant woman. The closest I’ve seen is in the workplace, a female boss using males for her satisfaction. This has the appearance of true dominance, but it fails in the area of willful submission. The subs are employees simply accepting the constraints of the workplace, most especially the Japanese workplace where the Superior has almost Godlike status. The “Orgasm Hell” videos would claim to be female dominant — several women masturbate a man endlessly and make him keep coming, ostensibly against his will. Trouble is, this is male centric — it is focused on the male pleasure, although in a somewhat twisted way.
The dominant female exhibits only one need —- her pleasure, satisfaction, entertainment. The male is present only to serve the female’s needs. You will see exactly this in the world’s preeminent dominant woman, Mistress T. She has produced nearly 2000 videos, worked worldwide (even as a hostess in an Asian country or two, perhaps Japan although I don’t recall specifically), written a book about her life and practiced true female dominance for nearly 20 years now. I have NEVER seen an instance where a male was anything but a tool to serve her needs. She likes sucking dick, she likes fucking, but the male is only there to provide a hard dick — and in her words, to “service her.” After servicing her, he can get the hell out, and his satisfaction is of no matter. And yet, knowing her as I do she is a wonderful, deeply caring woman.
I see one encouraging thing now happening in Western society — the emergence of the female led relationship (FLR). While it is rarely a true dominant/submissive relationship, it does recognize the primacy of the female in the relationship. This turns the Western concept of marriage on its head, but it is now becoming a “thing.” I have such an agreement with a lifelong paramour. She has told me that if/when her husband dies, I must marry her. And in the relationship, she will have the final say on all things that matter to the relationship. This only comes to play when serious disagreement arises. I will still have input, but I also recognize that we will together follow her final decision.
My perspective comes from long experience (starting nearly 50 years ago) serving as a sub to dominant women. I’ve had my balls beaten by a dominant woman, and my only response was to spread my legs wider to enhance the gift I was offering to her beauty and power. I’ve served one dominant woman for the last 20 years, and she has trained me to be a far better man than I could ever have been on my own. If this world ever turns to genuine matriarchy, we humans may stand a chance of actually surviving. Given all this, you can imagine why I find the concept of a dominant Japanese woman almost laughable.
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